making chipati under where the book sleeps: or, our time in delhi
July 21, 2010 — genvessel
street view of the typical chaos of delhi
We weren’t in Delhi for very long. Two sleeps, in fact. For me, personally, the time was marked by a ridiculously wicked abscessed tooth I had. I discovered that one can walk into a chemist in India, describe searing tooth pain, hand over 900 rupees and be given two sets of mysterious pills. These pills, referred to as the “Shady-Yet-Magic-Red-Pills,” helped my pain level better than anything else I tried and I will be eternally in the debt of the chemist in that shadtastic shop in Delhi.
But beyond my unbelievable amount of pain, we did some things in Delhi. Most remarkably to me, we hung out at a Sikh temple and drove past the location of Ghandi’s assassination. Also, we discovered the Delhi is more or less closed on Mondays and that Ba’hai Temples are sometimes shaped like flowers.
I’m not entirely sure how to – in this short space – describe Sikhism. I can offer you this link (as clearly Wikipedia is my definitive source) or this one (which has the benefit of being written by Sikhs). There are disciples and swords, a very special book and covered heads. What gets my soul all kerfuffled is that they feed people. The Sikh temple in Delhi is arugably the largest soup kitchen in the world – serving thousands each day with homemade food regardless of their faith system, caste or race. We were invited to sit down and press some chipati. I sat next to the woman pictured above in the blue shalwar. Without speaking the same language, she showed me how to make the bread and we sat quietly and rolled for a few moments. It was one of the holiest moments of my life.
Once again, perhaps you’ve heard of this guy. The museum was sadly closed, so we just took pictures of the gate of the home where Ghandi’s life was stolen from him by an extremist who felt he wasn’t quite Hindu enough to be an Indian leader.
A tradition on the team was to start each dinner off with a toast. We toasted a variety of things: friends from Truett, hygienic bathroom options, new Indian friends. This photo captures the last toast on Indian soil, made with Fresh Lime Sodas, our favorite beverage option. This toast was to “going there and back again” in honor of our journey home.
Our last act in India as a team was to gather at a home of some friends and have a puja, complete with communion through coconuts.
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Well, that’s it. India in a handful of blog posts. I’ve been home for a little under a month now and I really have no idea what to do with most of what I experienced. I don’t know how to rectify some of the dichotomies I saw with each other and certainly not with my own existence. As Bartlet said, “There are a few black and white days, days with absolute right and absolute wrong, but those days usually include body counts.”Absolutes are so rare in this world – perhaps the journey is learning to live in dissonance and loving the person in front of me while doing it.
I hope that India will continue to shape me as I move forward from here. That I would continue to be shaped by the rough parts and the smooth parts. That I would continue to be a different person as I learn to lean into the grace and brokenness of creation.














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