So, I’m back from India and I’m just beginning to figure out everything that happened. If you’re a faithful reader of this blog, look forward to hearing more about my trip – my reflections, my pictures, my witticisms. However, today, I thought I’d go with my “summary of the month” motif and give a highlight summary of each day.
May 22: Left Waco EARLY in the morning (before the sun was up) and spent the day traveling
23: Had a LOST finale party and am still annoyed about that finale
24: In one of my favorite conversations of the trip, we got to chat with Varun Soni who is the Dean of Religious Life at USC. He’s the first Hindu person to hold such a position at any institution in the U.S. and he offered us valuable insight into Indian and Hindu culture and the interplay with the United States. We boarded a flight that night to leave for Hong Kong.
26: Landed in Hong Kong (after loosing a day to the International Date Line) and marched around all day, getting to know the city and attempting to stay awake. We took the Star Ferry from one island to the other and experienced Hong Kong cuisine. Hotel: Tao Fong Shan
27: Conversations with knowers about life in Hong Kong. I had blisters that had blisters on my feet, but I persevered! We also had one of my favorite meals of the entire trip – Dim Sum!
28: Met Sam Say of Bolaven Farms and decided that I want to be involved in this man’s work somehow. After a quiet afternoon at Tao Fong Shan, we caught a midnight flight to Delhi
29: After a long journey, we finally arrived in Chennai. The drive from the airport to our hotel was a overload of sights and sounds and an excellent introduction to India. Hotel: YWCA
30: After attending church in the morning in Chennai (a deeply Anglican church that could have literally been on the Ormeau Road in Belfast), we boarded the bus for the drive to Mamallapuram. We walked on the beach next to the Bay of Bengal and enjoyed our fantastic room at the Ideal Beach Resort
31: TempleTastic Day! I got blessed for marriage, walked out of lunch to see elephants on parade and saw statues that were from the 6th century
June 1: Spent most of the day traveling to Hyderabad but spent the night shopping for proper wedding attire! Saree shopping is intense, y’all. Hotel: Club View Hotel
2: Sang at a church dedication, got henna on my hands and attended a Banjara groom preparation ceremony. AMAZING day.
3: Attended Vijay and Priyah’s wedding in full garb. Watch out for a full blog about this – it was intense.
4: Travel to Cochin. While at the Hyderabad Airport, got to talk to Sarah which was dearly needed. Hotel: can’t remember the name but it was right on the Arabian Sea. Ridiculous.
5: Sabbath Day! Team meeting in the A.M and truly odd oil bath in the afternoon. But overall, excellently restful day, capped off with watching the sunset over the Arabian Sea.
6: Toured Cochin – saw Jewtown and the Royal Dutch Palace of Kerala. Topped off the evening with possibly the oddest theater experience I’ve ever had.
7: Travel to Jaipur and our entrance into North India. Hotel: Madhuban Guest House.
8: Conversations and interactions with knowers and exploration of Amber Fort. To say that Mike – the architecture geek – freaked out is an understatement.
9: Instead of hanging out with the team as they walked around Jaipur, I hung out with Dustin and we had a doctor come visit us and diagnosed us both with pre-pneumonia. So we had great conversations and watched old episodes of 30 Rock. Then, at night, the whole gang went to Chocki Danni (which we affectionately call the Rajasthani State Fair). Highlights included a man-powered ferris wheel and camel riding.
10: Travel to Calcutta and our last domestic flight of the journey. Hotel: Fairlawn Hotel
11: Quiet morning of exploring and lunch included one of my favorite conversations of the trip. The afternoon included a tour of Mother Theresa’s house and I am still awed and humbled by her life and choices.
12: My head chose ‘no’ to life and so I spent most of the day resting processing and thinking. The silver lining was more good conversations
13: Worked at PremDan – the Missionary of Charity’s Home for Physically and Mentally Challenged Adults. Lots of thoughts about this – look for a further blog
14: Quiet day in Calcutta spent talking with people back home and people on the trip
15: Another day of random errands and saying goodbye to Calcutta. That evening was spent at the Calcutta Train Station, waiting on our train to Varanassi which was delayed by 8 hours. But yeah, India via train is an experience.
16: After getting of the train in Varanassi, we made our way to our hotel which was right on the Ganges River on the Assighat. As Cara Jane so eloquently said, we arrived at the bottom of the well. After settling in and getting a great lunch, we took a boat down the river and had a conversation with a Hindu Christ Follower about how he dances out his faith
17: Visited the Monkey Temple, attended the evening puja to the Ganges and traveled most of the day by cycle rickshaw. Crazypants.
18. Definitely my “it’s time to go home” day. After waking up seriously early for a sunrise boat ride down the Ganges (which was excellent and enlightening), we drove to see Buddha’s tree of enlightenment and then sat in a super hot hotel room, watched the first half of the US v. Slovenia game and then schlepped to the train station. Now, friends, I love India. But the Varanassi Train Station doesn’t fall anywhere in that love. It was a situation.
19: After arriving in Agra and at the super fabulous Trident Hotel, we went to the TAJ MAHAL. That’s right, one of the Wonders of the World. Ah-mazing. Oh, and I may have realized I had an absessed tooth. The trip largely became about pain management at this point.
20: Traveled to Delhi and checked into the Swargarath Hotel
21: The morning was spent at the Sikh temple where I got to help make chapati and had easily one of the holiest moments of the trip. We then got to see where Ghandi was assassinated and had one of our last team times over a pizza party in Stroope’s hotel room.
22: Spent the morning affirming the goodness and strengths we found in each other – I found out that I’m a Banyon Tree – and then began the process of traveling home. We made a brief detour to the house of some friends and had a final puja and then drove to the Delhi airport for the first of three flights home.
23: Landed in Hong Kong, then landed in San Francisco, then landed in Dallas. Craziest thing was that my parents were waiting in DFW to surprise me!
Clearly, there are many stories to tell from this trip and many things left to process. I have myriads of questions – ones that I’m not sure have answers and ones that I’m sure must. I plan on typing many of my thoughts out, but I know that many will linger for years. My trip to the bottom of the well and back shaped me in ways I am only beginning to understand.
